My husband is a lot of things, but the main thing he is awesome. Yea he does some things that make me contemplate “how to get away with murder” sometimes, but all in all, he is a really amazing man.
Yesterday I wasnt feeling good, and instead of trying to share the workload of parenting with me, he just let me rest. I literally went to bed at 830pm and woke up at 530 am, because I was just that tired and not feeling well. This means that for one night, my husband was daddy and mommy.
That may not seem like a big deal to some, but in my household it is. There are certain things that my husband rarely does for the baby, as it’s just something I handle. However last night he did all the little things that i normally do, but the beauty of this was that it wasnt done because I wasnt home. No…I was there, and he just took it upon himself to handle and let me rest.
It was f*ckin awesome. I know my hubs loves me, and I love him too, but doing that one little thing…that made all the difference in the world. I was able to function today because he allowed me to rest and get feeling better. Granted, I am not 100%, but I am at a solid 78% which is far better than I was. But the best part of his thoughtfulness…he wore a mouth guard to bed last night (which means no snoring), and when the baby woke up in the middle of the night…he didn’t bring him in our bed! He actually stayed in the room and put him back to sleep like a normal human being! It was amazing!
So yea…kudos to my amazing husband for always having my back. I appreciate him so much and love him to pieces…even if sometimes I wanna throat punch the sh*t out of him lol.